Dating in the dark article
"Spouses go to work, take care of their kids and do separate things at night. She suggests always going to bed at the same time and cuddling. "Men love their spouses, but they don't know how to fix their relationship problems, so they go outside their marriages to fill any holes," says licensed marriage and family therapist Susan Mandel, Ph D.Men want it all and have the skewed notion that another woman will make the longing for something more disappear."Online cheating—without any physical contact—is the most damaging type of infidelity," says Orlando.Becoming emotionally invested in another person means you've likely checked out of your marriage.
Fact #1: Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat.
How could Tiger Woods's ex, Elin Nordegren, and Arnold Schwarzenegger's ex, Maria Shriver, not have known what their high-profile husbands were up to?
They probably did, but couldn't bear to acknowledge it.
They could agree to work on things, but it won't matter.
If he's still in the throes of a hot, new romance, nothing a woman does will drag him out of it.